Well my serious relationships have all been with Chinese guys - have dated a few Western guys too but they never work mainly due to the age difference. For some reason only younger men fancy me but then again i only fancy younger men. You start off having a great relationship and then suddenly they get cold feet. Relationships are hard work and sometimes i wonder whether they should be.

I do feel sorry for my current boyfriend tho as i know i am very hard work but i really am trying to make more of an effort with him. It tough putting up with me and he must have a high tolerance level tho saying that, he is just as hard work as me.

I know what u mean - i know a few girls who have white man syndrom. I never fancied a white guy til i hit 30 and then i thought what the heck. But none of the relationships with white guys have been successful and i feel they have what you call "yellow fever" they want the girls to be submissive and stuff and i think thats bull shit.

My current boyfriend is aussie chinese, born in hk and lived in Oz since he was 4. He can be really westernised yet very chinese at the same time. I guess we both the same in that sort of sense. I just hope it works out for the two of us...fingers crossed hey

To be honest, i can;t say i have ever fancied a German - they just don;t do it for - i guess its individual taste huh? I think Spanish guys have similar traits to chinese - they are very family orientated and i think thats very important.

The love of my life was from HK and we met and dated in HK yet it didn;t work out. I guess maybe i was too loud and bositerous for him and the poor sod couldn;t handle my temper in the end - i don;t blame him.

Anyway, good luck, you're way younger than me and its taken me 9 years to find a guy who i like enough to go our properly with again. Hopefully you will find your man a whole lot sooner.

Txx